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Girlfriend 101

Posted on Jun 27th, 2009 by jitendar : The one who attempts the impossible jitendar

Now, we’ve all been asked, at one point or another in our lives, by someone about who our “ideal girlfriend/boyfriend” is. Right? Right.

 

Now, most of us will blush, or laugh, and attempt to give some sort of description that goes along these lines: “He/she should be caring and should look after my needs” or something close to that. Now, if you’re really creative, you should sound something like this: “He/she should be a kind hearted person who cares for me. He/she should also care for others. They should always be with me and not cheat with me. Our natures should match as well...” and maybe you add a bit more to that description, right?

 

Cool.

 

There’s nothing wrong with those descriptions... except that they’re rather vague. They’re not specific. I was thinking this one day, and decided to actually sit down and write (in as much detail as possible) the description of my ideal Girlfriend (‘cause i’m a straight guy). I called this project: “Girlfriend 101”.

 

The result was rather shocking to me. What I thought would be nothing more than a 4 page (A4 Size sheets) description turned out to be a 20-page essay that spanned more than 10,000 words. It turned out that I had a lot to say about the kind of girl I wished to have in my life.

 

Now, here’s the good part. I’ve done it, and so can you. Why? It’s because it’s really hard to hit a target you can’t see. If you’re single, and you know who (and what) you’re looking for in your partner, the chances of you  getting it right go up.

 

Now, I’ve already got a set format. Feel free to use the format. Don’t copy mine because the girl that’s right for me, might not be right for you... but, you can use my headings and sub-headings as guiding stars!

 

Go ahead. Oh, and if you do decide to use my description and post it online, please don’t forget to link-back to my original blog. That’s all I ask. That you give me credit for the format.

 

^_^

 

Alright then, without further ado, I present to you, Girlfriend 101 (This is the "orignal blog" just in case you're wondering). Just follow the link: http://gf101.blogspot.com/

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Suni : Guardian, Warrior, Survivor
about 2 hours later
Suni said

o.0 try not to get too picky, or you could end up alone for a long time my friend..that sort of thing may scare girls away from you. but it's good that you know what you want in a woman. just expect the same expectations from her.

jitendar : The one who attempts the impossible
about 2 hours later
jitendar said

Whoa… hold up a second here…

:-)

Look, I know nobody's perfect. But, you need SOMETHING to compare the woman to. Right?

^_^

Otherwise you won't be able to decide what you like and don't like in a girl.

:-)

Anyway, they're general guidelines. Nothing more. It's just a description, and it's my descrpition, so I can go against it any time I want.

:-D

That's the beauty of it. It's just there if you need it, but you don't necessarily need to follow it. Follow me?

:-P

Suni : Guardian, Warrior, Survivor
about 3 hours later
Suni said

um…yes?

jitendar : The one who attempts the impossible
about 3 hours later
jitendar said

^_^

Awesome~

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